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We Can Change

by Martin Hoybye

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New single “We Can Change” – a call to reach out to others to create change.

Life can cause adversity and be a bumpy ride. But despite this, we must believe in the best in people and learn to lift each other up. The opportunity to change ourselves and each other is always at our fingertips: When we extend our hand to others.

The chorus to “We Can Change” came almost verbatim from the conversation Lul Omar and Martin Høybye had when they co-wrote the song. Among other things, they talked about Omar’s experience of going through lockdowns during the Corona pandemic. She hadn’t experienced racism before in Denmark, but at one point, her community in Aarhus inadvertently became a spreader of the virus. During that time, she did experience comments that were directed at her solely because of her background as a second-generation Somali immigrant.

But the problems that Lul Omar experienced in daily life were centered more around negative social control in her immediate community. She experienced a shadow society where everyone was watching everyone, and where youths and young adults exerted a form of control over each other. She was very reflective of this situation, as she had previously founded the Najima Association, which worked to support children and young people with dual cultural backgrounds in Denmark.

Omar’s own childhood was characterized by neglect, violence, abuse, and mental illness at home. Her mother left her father due to violence, and she grew up with two brothers and a sister in a social housing project in Aarhus. Until she was sent to be re-educated in a village in Somalia, which did not end well. She eventually returned to Denmark, but since then often had trouble coping with everyday life.

Her experiences made her feel like she no longer belonged in any culture, when she wrote “We Can Change” with Martin Høybye. But despite this, she believed and believes in the best in people. She is against dishonesty and “acting,” and believes that: “We need to lift each other up. I believe we can change,” as we hear in the chorus to “We Can Change.”

Shortly after the songwriting session, Lul Omar was the victim of a violent assault. She survived but was hospitalized and underwent surgery. She has now moved to another city but has chosen to be cited publicly as co-writer of her song “We Can Change”.

lyrics

We Can Change
Words and music by Lul Omar and Martin Høybye

Can we not respect each other?
I don’t like the acting game
Let’s not hide, let’s uplift each other
I still believe that we can change

I’m tired of heartbreak
from humankind
standing in the way
of what I wish to find
Angry is just the easy way
“don’t blame yourself” is so easy to say
I ask myself where’s my future lover, and
to say that out loud is just the hardest thing

Can we not respect each other?
I don’t like the acting game
Let’s not hide, let’s uplift each other
I still believe that we can change

Me, I lost two brothers in the past
still everybody hating on me
for making a future
I just want to forgive and forget
Why should I feel worthless?
get slandered every day
why be jealous of me?
while I drink my mind away

Can we not respect each other?
I don’t like the acting game
Let’s not hide, let’s uplift each other
I still believe that we can change

I have a love addiction
believing in the best we can be
but I feel anxious and insecure
keep letting things get out of hand
I grew up with social control
always trying to be the happy kid
but now I work to make a difference
and I never did take the easy way

Can we not respect each other?
I don’t like the acting game
Let’s not hide, let’s uplift each other
I still believe that we can change

credits

released March 15, 2024
We Can Change
(Lul Omar/Martin Høybye)

Musicians:
Martin Høybye: Ac gtr, vocals.
Dennis Ahlgren: El gtr, bass, juno.
Peter Dombernowsky: Drums, percussion.

Producer/recording engineer:
Martin Høybye & Dennis Ahlgren

Mix:
Dennis Ahlgren

Mastering:
Sigurdór Guðmundsson

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Martin Hoybye Denmark

Martin Høybye has spent more than two decades honing his craft as a songwriter and co-writer professionally, before taking his songwriting practice to academia. From 2019 to 2022 he shared songwriting with others from South Africa to Sweden to identify ways of working that could turn songwriting into more of a communal resource. ... more

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